Hey guys, Richard Phu here from The Ultimate Man, and I want to share with you really, a quick story here about one of my amazing clients that I got an absolute privilege of helping. His name is Paul Dim.
He came to me after a 3-year relationship, his very first relationship, the first love of his life where he poured everything of him into it, he poured everything: all of his heart, all of his soul into it. You know what I mean guys and basically after 3 years, she called it quits and he was just devastated.
He was so confused that he got really negative about himself that he always kept going back and thinking like I was saying before in other videos.
Becoming the over thinker, always thinking about how he could have done better, how he messed up, how he could have improved things that maybe he would still be with her, maybe there’s still a chance, maybe there’s something he can do to fix, to grab her and have her back in his life.
During the first week actually of coaching, when we worked together, he really said something like this to me.
He said to me that, when we started, just as soon as we started, he told me that his friend of 10 years, his best friend of 10 years said that he did not want to hang out with him anymore because he was so negative, that he was a drain, he took the energy away from him and that was a crazy thing.
I’m sitting there thinking, oh my god! This is really intense!
I stepped out of my head for a second, I stepped into his shoes and I stepped into what he needed me to be. He was so scared, he was afraid, he was alone, he felt like there was no other hope. But the fact that he had me as a coach, the fact that he had me on his team, we shifted so quickly, so fast and what we did was we really focused on.
I taught him this and I want to tell you this because it’s so important. If you’re listening and watching this..
Right now, this is where the opportunity exists:
- for you to become amazing
- for you to become ultimate
- become The Ultimate Man for yourself
This is what I told Paul. I told him that this is a chance for rebuilding, this is where the phoenix rises from the ashes. Your ashes of your old self are gone and now is that chance to reborn the way you want to be born.
When Paul came to me, we worked on a plan, we really focused on what he needed to do. And when I say we focused on what we needed to do, we really started asking the right question because most of the time our brains aren’t going to find answers and in order to find answers we have to ask the right questions.
But this is the thing, sometimes we don’t ask the right questions and so having me and having a coach on your team is going to be different because we will be asking you the real questions you should be asking yourself, the things that are going to get you moving not the things that will keep you stuck.
See when I started asking Paul, “What makes you happy man?” We worked out the 5 main areas – The Five Commandments of the Ultimate Man.
He really started targeting in on the ones that really mattered to him, that ones that he forgot when he was in a relationship, the ones that he forgot about it. So a lot of that was really, he started focusing on just 3 things right. In two weeks, he started to focus on 3 things that changed his life.
How do I know it changed his life? Because after two weeks, after that first call, he called me up:
Paul: “Richard, something is weird.”
Me: “Alright Paul, just tell me what it is.”
Paul: “You know I’m happy man, I’m really happy.”
Me: “Okay why is that weird?”
Paul: “Well because I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years and my best friend of 10 years have left me and so I should be depressed but for some reason, I’m happy.”
Me: “That’s a good thing man so, tell me what makes you happy Paul?”
Paul: “I really did those three things that you told me to do Richard.”
I did not tell him anything. We just worked as planned out. And this is what we are going to do as well if you work with me. He said 3 things:
First was really giving back to his community.
He loved his community so much. He went out and he actually started picking up more activities, more voluntary work at his church. So he loves his church and he became more of a youth leader at his church which was huge for him to be able to give back, to be able to just bring back to the community.
The second thing that he focused on was his health.
In his health, he really loved soccer. He loved soccer so much that he started doing, playing more soccer, taking more on practice session, giving himself the excuse to go out and play more, right? And really energizing his body, feeling energized, feeling topped up.
He loves coaching people.
Then the third thing he worked on was because he’s a teacher, he works at a school and he loves teaching, he loves coaching people. And so what he decided to do, he decides to become the debating coach in his work place. and by being the debating coach, it gave him:
- more energy
- more capability
- more purpose for him to go out and do what he wants to do and serve what he really wants to serve
Here is the best thing in the world – the best decision he has ever made. After that he just sky rocket, he just launched himself up and he’s just gone onto becoming a better and stronger man, his ultimate self. And really living the life that he wants, forging the life that he wants.
And you know when he finished the program:
- he was just all over the moon with confidence
- he knew he could take on anything
- he was ready
- he broke away from the ashes that he used to be and became that phoenix
- he became that warrior that was inside of him
And that was fantastic for him and it was huge, absolutely huge and that’s what it is when you’re working with me and if you want to approach this opportunity. But don’t just take my word for it. Here are some testimonials that I want to share with you, some other things that other people have said about me:
Person 1: “He gave me clarity in what I need to do with my business to move it to the next level and that man is called Richard Phu”.
Person 2: “This guy has absolutely changed the way I see things moving forward and taught me what it’s like to actually step into me as an ultimate warrior and become the man I’m meant to be.”
Person 3: “He’s the guy that pulls no punches. He says it, he calls it as it is. And I think that is really important for in a coach to be willing to get you to see through your BS so that when he calls it shit hits the fan, you know you’re able to make that kind of transformation and shift.”
See it’s not just enough for you to hear from me what I do. These people have actually worked with me, they’ve learned from me, I’ve taught with them, I’ve presented with them, in front of them and some of them are even my coaching clients.
And you know, it’s really to help them step out of there. So if you’re serious and if you want to take yourself to the next level, you want to become your own Ultimate Man – not what I tell you as an ultimate man, not what you know whoever else tells you as an ultimate man but what you want to be living with your truth, living with integrity, living with honor, living with true purpose..
Just head on over here and book in some time or even jump on the webinar so that we can share with you more of how the system actually works.
So, until then guys. I’ll look forward to seeing you on the webinar or in person. Otherwise, make sure you check out the other videos to learn more about how we do things at the Ultimate Man. So this is Richard Phu..
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